A Person Who’s Extremely Depressed, He Doesn’t Worth to Talk to
It’s common to see someone who has depression around us. I don’t hate people who have depression because I have depression too. However, I believe you must have the experience to see one of your friends saying, “I don’t have friends. Nobody cares about me.” In that case, it means that person never thinks of you as his friend.
Beware! Everyone who hates a person must have a reason. Even we live in America, we learn to tolerate and accept others in different cultures, it is okay to hate something that you don’t actually like.
Why it is okay to hate someone?
There’s nothing wrong with it and we all grow up in different cultures and we all have prejudice. Even it is okay to hate someone, we must respect others. Silent distance is a good way to show our dislikes. However, insulation and barbaric behaviors should not allow showing toward a person. Because when you are insulting a person, you are insulting yourself at the same time.
I hate racism. I hate classism. And I hate special treatment…
Hate is a strongly negative word to express our feelings. In the beginning, I did say that I don’t have any prejudiced or discriminating thoughts about a group of people who suffer from depression because I have depression too. I currently have the treatment to fight for it. I must say that depression has a strong power to corrupt a person and destroy their life.
We all Are Not “Normal,” why bother to discriminate against others?
According to the statistic from ADAA, there’s 18% of the population in America has anxiety disorder and depression. Literally, there’s no such a person can be considered as completed healthy in psychological research.
It’s actually really hurt when it hits you. Mental illnesses are unlike physical illnesses. We cannot recover our health by completely relying on physical strength like taking SSRI medications such as Sertraline, Citalopram, and Fluoxetine, etc. It is true that exercising and taking prescriptions are helpful to recover our health. However, those medications are only for short-term using and having a high possibility that side effects happen. Furthermore, we must stand to have our faith or belief in order to fight against illnesses. Mental power contains the strongest energy to affect each of us. If a person resists, then he will no longer have hope for a day of recovery.
Please state that a toxic person has nothing to do with depression. They just simply selfish and narcissistic.
Warning! Treat yourself better and save your time. Here are 10 signs that your friend is toxic.
PLEASE AVOID TO INTERACT with the person who has the following characteristics:
- Selfish and Narcissistic
- Lazy and refuse to take action to change
- Like playing victim’s role to earn your sympathy
- Like complaining about everything and spreading negative energy to corrupt others
- They look down on anyone
- They never take their responsibilities
- Talking suicide as their only true friend and always say that they don’t have ANY friends at all.
- Treat himself as trash to admire you, but treat you like a worthless trash
- They expect the payment every time they “give.”
- THEY DON’T RESPECT OTHERS!!!!
A person who has these characteristics is the most selfish kind I’ve ever seen. They want your attention and sympathy, but they never want to have you around their sides.
You still not understanding? They don’t need your love!
Why Those Extreme Depressed People are Selfish and Narcissistic?
I don’t know. It depends on what’s your standard measurement of these negative traits. In fact, we all have these characteristics somehow, but they have different meanings.
I had a friend who complained about his parents and had a little fantasy to be reborn in Europe and a caring, loving family for his next life. Yes, I am stupid that I waste my time to deal with him. And yes, he only finds me when he wants to find someone to talk to and always complains he doesn’t have friends to talk to.
His problems are only about family communication issues! If he doesn’t want to stay in his major, then change the major to his like. If his parents don’t agree, why don’t go for double majors or dual degrees? It MUST have a solution to solve his problems. I helped and listed all the solutions for him to solve, but the only thing I can’t help is he hates his originality and nationality. No matter how hard I tried to persuade and help him, it won’t change his FAKE DETERMINATION IN SUICIDE.
I don’t want to be mean, but he never takes action to do anything, even he threatened me and himself that he’s going to kill himself. He never listens to what I say, so why would I bother to care about his life since he nothing does the same to me? I didn’t get any respect from him anyway.
Nevertheless, I had another friend, a pen pal, who writes to me with whole strong emotional words. No matter what I say, he won’t listen. No matter what happens, he takes blames all to himself and treats himself like a trash. If he is a trash, what am I who talking to a trash?
If you don’t even respect yourself, then why people should respect you?
Every time when I talk to them, they never tell me anything positive. What they do is staying facts, spreading negative thoughts, and seeing how I react to his comments. They honestly care about you when you miss their points to get attention. And every time they don’t need you, they treat you like air and tell others that “they don’t have a friend.”
You are being used, so do I. To deal with this kind of people, you can just simply distance them. There’s no used to educate or lecture them because they only listen to what they want to hear and react to what hurts their feelings. They are good at playing the victim’s role and crying like a baby to gain your compassion.
They are toxic. They only give you negative energy and never treat you from their hearts.
There’s nothing to do with depression! They are just simply being toxic that wanting people’s attention and find their self-values to fill up their emptiness. They aren’t bad people, but their personal value and world value can be toxic if we have a long-term relationship. Indeed, this kind of people, most of them are suffering from a depressive mood disorder. Fundamentally, not all people who have depression are toxic!
Remember, the first time is tolerance, the second time is magnanimous, and the last, third time is demeaning.
To those people who fit my described characteristics: If you are treating somebody as trash, then you are treating yourself as trash too. However, if you are treating yourself as trash, then people are treating you also like trash!
My dear readers, please treat yourself better and stop this unhealthy, toxic relationship, in case this kind of people are around you.
You can never wake a person who pretends to sleep.
